All your romantic relationships have one thing in common.
The attraction, the fanciness, the emotions you have for this other person, they have nothing to do with the other person. They have everything to do with you.
Al these emotions that you have, are created by you. Not by the other person.
And these emotions stem from where you are at that time in your life.
Who you are, how you are feeling, your situations, your circumstances, what you want, what you need.
Once you understand that, that you are creating all these emotions, you will understand that you are always in control over them.
No other person has the control.
No other person holds any power over you.
You are always in control.